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Caleb & Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele

Formerly: The Marriage Podcast for Smart People. Co-hosted by Caleb and Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele. We are married to each other and are both counselors who have worked extensively with couples and individuals. We own Therapevo Counselling Inc., a counselling agency that delivers hope and healing to clients across North America and beyond via secure Zoom video call.

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  1. When Your Partner Wants to Watch Porn Together in Recovery: Bargaining, Boundaries, and Betrayal Trauma 21:56
  2. Compulsive Lying in Relationships: Why You Lie When You Don't Need To (and How to Stop) 30:10
  3. Am I Addicted to Porn? The Signs That Actually Matter 23:32
  4. Is Paying for OnlyFans Cheating? Why It Feels Like an Affair to Betrayed Partners 24:14
  5. The Anxious-Avoidant Trap: Why One of You Reaches and the Other Goes Quiet 28:14
  6. I Ended the Affair. Why Isn't That Enough? 24:07
  7. When You Find the Money: Financial Infidelity After Sexual Betrayal 27:40
  8. Lonely in Marriage: Why You Can Share a Bed and Still Feel Alone 28:03
  9. Betrayal Trauma or PTSD? Why You Can't Just Get Over It 24:53
  10. Why the Betrayer Shuts Down: The Shame Collapse Behind the Silence 31:42
  11. When Porn Talks Back: AI Companions, Deepfakes, and Why Interactive Porn Hooks Harder 27:34
  12. Narcissist or Sex Addict? How a Therapist Reads the Pattern Behind Betrayal 28:29
  13. What Does My Husband's Porn Type Say About Me? Healing the Body-Image Wound of Betrayal 25:03
  14. Meeting the Needs Porn Was Meeting: How to Rebuild Real Connection in Recovery 21:40
  15. Why Does Porn Escalate? Tolerance, Arousal Templates, and the Way Back Down 28:06
  16. Intrusive Images During Sex After Betrayal: How to Stay Present Instead of Powering Through 26:21
  17. A Relapse Is Not a Reset: Why Counting Days Sets You Up to Binge 20:25
  18. Surviving Infidelity When Your Partner Won't Do the Recovery Work 25:10
  19. How to Stop Thinking About Porn: The White Bear Effect and Urge Surfing 26:30
  20. The Repair Most Couples Skip: How to Reconnect After a Fight 20:52
  21. Should I Stay or Leave After an Affair? Why You Don't Have to Decide Yet 28:17
  22. Why Am I Attracted to Certain Porn? Reading the Wound Underneath 26:30
  23. Hysterical Bonding: Why You Want Him More After Betrayal 24:24
  24. Why Discovering Betrayal Feels Like You're Going Crazy 31:32
  25. The Year-Two Wall in Betrayal Trauma Recovery: Why You Still Feel Dead Inside 35:23
  26. Restitution After Betrayal: The Repair Work an Apology Cannot Do 34:21
  27. Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED): Recovery Beyond Abstinence 34:11
  28. Is Your Spouse Using Therapy Language to Gaslight You? The Five Patterns of Weaponized Therapy Speak 39:03
  29. Why You Hate Your Porn Use But Still Can't Stop 29:45
  30. Why the Betrayer Keeps Hurting Their Partner During Recovery 30:00
  31. Trickle Truth and Why Recovery Keeps Restarting 28:19
  32. My Spouse Won't Go to Couples Therapy: What to Do When Only One of You Is Ready 32:24
  33. Why Your Body Remembers the Betrayal (And 3 Polyvagal Resets That Actually Help) 37:53
  34. Is Covenant Eyes Enough for Porn Addiction Recovery? 27:15
  35. How to Be a Safe Man: 7 Markers, Seven Counterfeits, and Why Your Words Aren't Landing 30:16
  36. The 72-Hour Porn Addiction Relapse Protocol: What Both Partners Need to Do Right Now 26:58
  37. Porn Addiction in Women: Breaking the Silence on the Invisible Struggle 19:23
  38. Is Watching Porn Cheating? What the Research Says About Betrayal, Fidelity, and Harm 28:07
  39. What Porn Actually Does to Your Brain: The Neuroscience of Compulsive Use 25:37
  40. The Boundary Blueprint: How Self-Protection Creates the Conditions for His Recovery 40:16
  41. He's a Good Man, But a Porn Addict: How to Recover When You Choose to Stay 32:29
  42. The Pornography Gaslight: Why Your Gut Is Right (Even When He Says You're Wrong) 29:15
  43. The Porn Detective Trap: Why Checking His Phone Won't Give You Peace 33:16
  44. Are You Married to a Roommate? How to Reconnect 23:41
  45. 9 Science-Based Exercises to Transform Your Relationship Communication 24:10
  46. The Mental Load Trap: Why "Helping" Is Hurting Your Marriage 20:14
  47. Breaking the Dance of Disconnection: Understanding Your Marriage Cycle 32:35
  48. Rebuilding Intimacy After Porn Addiction: A Complete Guide for Couples 20:03
  49. The Complete Guide to Formal Disclosure for Pornography Addiction: Ending Trickle-Truth and Rebuilding Reality 32:46
  50. Forgiveness vs. Healing: The Neurobiology of Betrayal Trauma 28:56