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cinder + carol

the podcast for your quarter life crisisdating • adulting • friendships🎙️ new ep every tuesday

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49 episodes

  1. what do you put your identity in? 39:32
  2. are you husband material? 56:00
  3. how to define success for yourself 43:53
  4. what a guy's friendships say about him 44:22
  5. carol quits her job !! 35:36
  6. how to let go of future plans in your 20s 52:12
  7. how to flirt in our 20s 32:17
  8. to all the boys we've loved before... 1:08:36
  9. how to make dating apps work for you 30:13
  10. how to be cracked at your hobbies 30:50
  11. the time we almost broke up 40:06
  12. how to sustain healthy long-term relationships 50:06
  13. how to let a guy down easy 37:01
  14. what to do when your best friend starts dating 43:02
  15. how girls think about their guy friends 51:33
  16. lessons in learning (and re-learning) our limits 47:16
  17. how to actually make long distance work (ft. evelyn) 43:06
  18. do you tell a friend you don’t like their boyfriend? 30:50
  19. conversations with our guy friends (ft. andrew cheng) 34:41
  20. the reality of dating after graduation 47:46
  21. are we being nice or flirting? THE MALE PERSPECTIVE 58:07
  22. the power of being alone 39:45
  23. what they don't tell you about new grad life 36:40
  24. med school vs. corporate: work-hard-play-hard mindset 43:01
  25. are you emotionally available? & our biggest attachment issues 48:14
  26. making, growing, & sustaining friendships in our 20s 50:20
  27. are you a red flag? & other dating truths in our 20s 38:09
  28. are we being nice or are we flirting? 36:32
  29. can guys and girls be 'just friends'? 44:34
  30. why are older siblings like this... 39:17
  31. the “clock” of our 20s: dating, career, and community 30:15
  32. a native new yorker explains growing up in nyc 55:55
  33. what 'The Summer I Turned Pretty' taught us about love & dating in our 20s 1:09:23
  34. the stories of our immigrant parents 47:20
  35. going back to china changed how we see family 51:59
  36. the hardest part of going from college to corporate 33:13
  37. NYC vs. SF in your 20s: which is actually better? 37:01
  38. is public university better than private? campus, social, prestige (ft. dan jai & maria tu) 1:06:21
  39. evolving priorities: career, friendships, dating, family 43:15
  40. working out long-distance friendships 48:01
  41. work is not your identity 47:37
  42. how we handle conflict (roommate edition, part 2) 42:02
  43. how we met (roommate edition, part 1) 40:22
  44. 2026 resolutions: what we're changing 29:06
  45. 2025 wrapped: cinder & carol's year in review 52:49
  46. did we regret leaving big corporate? big vs small tech 36:53
  47. making friends in nyc 28:40
  48. moving across the country (to nyc!) 57:22
  49. CINDER & CAROL START A PODCAST 2:17