Ruby RaeD

Reflections on Dysphoria 6 Weeks Post Op

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The Performance Is Not the Identity

I’m back after gender confirmation surgery, and I’m still working through what it means to finally be on this side of something I spent years moving toward.

This episode isn’t really about the surgery itself. It’s about what happened when one enormous source of dysphoria suddenly became quiet.

What happens to the rest of your dysphoria when that…