Touching Grass
'don't chase, attract' is more desperate than making the first move
16:26
0:00 sperm goes to egg?
1:13 how being passive limits you
2:34 the lie of 'attract, don't chase'
3:30 i made the first move
6:03 chasing vs desperation
7:34 you’re not the prize (neither is he)
8:37 nyc story: when nobody makes the first move
11:35 interest does not equal action
12:22 there is no “chooser”
13:29 bridgerton & the illusion of choice
14:54 dating isn’t a game of caring…