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Modern Love

Ajai Vindication

For 18 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast. Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday. Listen to this podcast in New York Times Audio, our new iOS app for news subscribers. Download now at nytimes.com/audioapp

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464 episodes

  1. How Unthinkable Loss Led Me to the Top of Mount Everest 42:43
  2. On Our Third Date, I Asked for a Joint Bank Account (Encore) 47:36
  3. Does My Son Like His Stepmother More Than Me? 50:11
  4. How Alan Cumming Escaped His Father and Became Himself 48:10
  5. I’m Black, Even if You Don’t See it 56:40
  6. I Left My Fiancé, My Church and My Shame 37:43
  7. I Was That Cliché Divorced Guy, and I Knew It 53:59
  8. How to Feed Your Feelings After Divorce 50:10
  9. In 24 Hours, My Whole Life Changed 40:23
  10. Hosting an Orgy Is About More Than Just Sex 40:22
  11. I Don’t Trust A.I. But I Told it Everything 41:53
  12. Am I Too Anxious for Love? 49:33
  13. Where Did All My Male Friendships Go? (Encore) 1:03:44
  14. Is Polyamory Right for You? 50:49
  15. My Disability Makes My Sex Life Even Hotter 57:43
  16. 'The Interview': Robby Hoffman Will Always Feel Poor, No Matter How Rich She Gets 53:57
  17. Ask Me About My Dead Son 53:56
  18. Eddie Huang Drops the Tough Guy Act 53:14
  19. Friends for 16 Years. Lovers for One Night. (Encore) 42:09
  20. How Getting Stoned With My Dad Helped Us Heal 44:24
  21. Laverne Cox Is Ready to Tell the Truth. Even if It’s Messy. 56:30
  22. I Tried to Have a Kid With My Best Friend. It Got Complicated. 47:39
  23. 20260526 Is Codependency Good? 43:24
  24. I Tried Everything to Escape My Heartbreak. Only This Worked. 45:49
  25. Love Lessons From Ramy Youssef’s Dog 40:10
  26. Isabel Allende and Her Mother Told Each Other (Almost) Everything 45:39
  27. My Mom Had a Secret Daughter. I Finally Found Her. 51:36
  28. No, I Won't Be Your Bridesmaid 51:31
  29. Elizabeth Banks Married Her College Sweetheart. They’re Still in Love. 46:32
  30. My Husband’s Breakdown Was My Breakthrough 56:14
  31. Zendaya and Robert Pattinson on Marriage and Secrets 34:19
  32. He’s Gay. She’s Straight. They’re Newlyweds. (Encore) 39:51
  33. A Widow's Guide to Sex 55:04
  34. Jessie Buckley Became a Mother for 'Hamnet.' Then She Became a Real One. (Encore) 37:36
  35. Lindy West Thought She Couldn’t Handle Polyamory. She Was Wrong. 53:36
  36. I Didn’t Want to Have Kids. My Husband Did. Could Our Marriage Survive? 54:36
  37. What Happened When My Dad and I Came Out to Each Other 39:19
  38. The Secret to True Romance 40:50
  39. The Real Story Behind Jennette McCurdy’s Novel “Half His Age.” 45:28
  40. I Was the Fun Dad. It Almost Destroyed My Marriage. 44:36
  41. I Tried to Toughen Up My Son. He Had Other Ideas. 56:15
  42. 14modernlove-podcast-belle-burden 56:35
  43. Want to have better sex this year? Here’s how. 41:13
  44. Andrew Garfield Wants to Crack Open Your Heart (Encore) 50:14
  45. I Cashed Out My 401(k) to Build a Women’s Only Retirement Community 29:29
  46. Jessie Buckley Became a Mother for ‘Hamnet.’ Then She Became One for Real. 38:13
  47. Finding the Magic, Just in Time (Encore) 42:35
  48. A Therapist’s Emotional Tool Kit for a Better Holiday Season 45:47
  49. There's a Better Way for Couples to Talk About Money 43:49
  50. On Our Third Date, I Asked for a Joint Bank Account 47:57