Forgive Yourself

101: Learning to Love the Woman You've Been Judging

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You don’t have to fix yourself first to deserve your own kindness.

So many high-achieving women I work with don’t hate themselves…but they don’t really like themselves, either. They tolerate themselves. They manage themselves. They critique themselves. And often, they live in a quiet, ongoing relationship with judgment.

Self-judgment doesn’t always scream. Sometimes it sounds reasonable.…