Polycurious

64. Should You Have Rules When Opening Up? with A & J (Part 1)

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A and J opened up their relationship after nearly three decades together, when menopause sparked a surge in A’s libido.

In this episode, we talk about their process of untangling enmeshment, how they moved from a rule-heavy dynamic — with J, who was initially hesitant about non-monogamy, setting most of the boundaries — to having no rules at all. We also explore how those early rules revealed…