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WHEN DATING HURTS

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A "must-listen-to" podcast on dating abuse and domestic violence, also known as intimate partner violence. .

Hosted by Bill Mitchell, author of the memoir, WHEN DATING HURTS (Amazon), this book is about the murder of his daughter by her ex-boyfriend.

Bill and his wife, Michele, lost Kristin to dating violence. She was brutally murdered in June 2005, just 20 days after her college graduation.

FACT: 1 in 3 WOMEN suffer serious physical violence at the hands of intimate partners during their lifetimes. Typically, it happens between the ages of 16-24. But can happen at any age. It doesn't need to happen.

Bill interviews experts with key experiences in dating and domestic violence:

• Actual survivors of intimate partner violence (dating abuse and domestic violence)

• "DV" agency counselors

• Law enforcement

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Episodes

399 episodes

  1. 394. Tara Shuler - She Negotiated Her Way Out of Dangerous Marriage Conversations 31:51
  2. 378. Re-Release - Bruce Lost His Daughter to Officer-Involved Domestic Violence 1:21:06
  3. 399. Michele Locke interviews Bill Mitchell for the "LoveLustLaw" Podcast 55:23
  4. 396. Warning Signs - Knowing Psychological Traps and Staying Safe 25:48
  5. 395. Callie O’Reilly – A University Student’s Story of Love, Manipulation, Consent & Shame 45:41
  6. 380. "Leaving: The Hardest and Most Dangerous Decision You'll Ever Make" 12:18
  7. 393. Patricia Gordon Stevens - Leaving: The Fear, Shame & Coercive Control Follow After You Escape 53:25
  8. 388. Loss of Self Esteem - How Abuse Steals Who You Are 26:35
  9. 392. Jocelyn - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - Coercive Control, Family Court Nightmares & Fighting to Protect Her Child After Leaving 1:13:41
  10. 391. Jocelyn - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - Coercive Control, Family Court Nightmares & Fighting to Protect Her Child After Leaving 59:16
  11. 387. Baby Trapping - When a Pregnancy is Used as a Leash 19:36
  12. 390. Sunshine Faye - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - She Owned Her Mistakes, Danced With the Devil, and Became The Manipulation Whisperer 34:28
  13. 389. Sunshine Faye - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - She Owned Her Mistakes, Danced With the Devil, and Became The Manipulation Whisperer 39:52
  14. 386. Mirroring - The Narcissist's Deadliest Trap 13:07
  15. 379. Lisa Ortiz - Survivor Story of Hitting Rock Bottom and Choosing to Live 1:10:12
  16. 385. Safety Planning and Strategies 13:00
  17. 382. Rebecca Lazzelle - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - Surviving Financial Abuse, Emotional Betrayal & Near-Fatal Violence 48:50
  18. 381. Rebecca Lazzelle - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - Surviving Financial Abuse, Emotional Betrayal & Near-Fatal Violence 53:52
  19. 384. Spyware - Detection and Removal. 13:14
  20. 377. Re-Release - Katie - Pt 2 of 2 - Escalation to Emotional, Physical, and Near‑Fatal Violence 39:15
  21. 377. Re-Release - Katie - Pt 1 of 2 - Escalation to Emotional, Physical, and Near‑Fatal Violence 34:16
  22. 383. Gaslighting and Psychological Manipulation 12:41
  23. 375. Re-Release - Jen Lee - A Survivor’s Story of Dating Abuse, Emotional Trauma, and Recovery 56:09
  24. 382. Dynamics that Make Coercive Control Effective and Difficult to Escape 12:28
  25. 374. Listen to the Mind of an Abuser - Our Eighth Installment 14:39
  26. 370. Isolation - Your Partner Wants You Away from Your Support Network 12:21
  27. 373. Emily’s Story - Pt 2 of 2 Pts: Groomed, Controlled and Stalked by an Abusive Predator 40:40
  28. 372. Emily’s Story Pt 1 of 2 Pts: Groomed, Controlled and Stalked by an Abusive Predator 54:03
  29. 371. Stonewalling - When Communication is Controlled by Your Abuser 12:44
  30. 368. Shael Norris - Exec. Dir. "SafeBAE" - Youth-led Nonprofit Stopping Sexual Violence 1:13:07
  31. 369. Ghosting Part 2 - When Your Partner Disappears to Control You 13:46
  32. 363. Jena Jake - Understanding Attraction Patterns & Warning Signs in Abusive Relationships 47:25
  33. 367. Dog Whistles - Covert Abuse Signals Abusers use to Control You 11:28
  34. 366. Breadcrumbing - How We become Strung Along by Abusers 12:30
  35. 362. Megan Margherio - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - "Everwoven": Overcoming Stepbrother Abuse & Abusive Marriage 38:13
  36. 361. Megan Margherio - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - "Everwoven": Overcoming Stepbrother Abuse & Abusive Marriage 53:14
  37. 365. Pocketing - How We Become Hidden Out of View by Abusers 12:42
  38. 364. Hoovering - How We are Vacuumed Back into Abusive Relationships 11:57
  39. 360. Bill Mitchell's Appearance on "This Is Actually Happening" Podcast 48:46
  40. 353. Coercive Control - How to Detect It. How to Break Free. 12:47
  41. 352. Trauma Bonding - What It Is. How To Break Free. 12:39
  42. 359. Kayleigh - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - Abused for 15 Years. Love Bombing, Red Flags & Breaking Free from Controlling Husband 1:02:21
  43. 358. Kayleigh - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - Abused for 15 Years. Love Bombing, Red Flags & Breaking Free from Controlling Husband 43:28
  44. 351. Fast Tracking - What It Feels Like. How to Stop It. 10:38
  45. 350. Blame Shifting -- What It Is. How to Deal With It. 12:55
  46. 357. Rereleasing Brenda - Losing Her Freedom to an Abuser Who Refused to Let Go 55:23
  47. 342. How Abusers use Digital Technology to Control and Stalk 12:57
  48. 354. Anna Astwood Speaks about Her New Book, "But He Said He Loved Me" 13:33
  49. 356. Rereleasing Erin's Story - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - The Nightmare of Escaping Charlie's Demands & Total Control 43:36
  50. 355. Rereleasing Erin's Story - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - The Nightmare of Escaping Charlie's Demands & Total Control 40:29